A comment right out of Charlie Brown.
Just two months after the death of my son, I am feeling and recognizing “good grief.” Please understand, missing him is a deep ache. But it is so good to have the sure confidence that we will be together again. My pastors, family, and friends continue giving their compassion, touch, and prayers which bring relief.
Whatever the sorrow or loss, it is the start of coping, resolving, finding answers, accepting powerlessness, trusting God, finding hope, that gets you through the night and into the day.
Isn’t all suffering the growth cell that develops form, shape, growth, and resolution? Indulging in memories at unexpected moments? It hurts and feels good simultaneously. It is good grief.
Today is Good Friday. It brings us more “Good Grief.” How crushing the torture, suffering, and death of our savior. How transforming Christ’s resurrection and living presence! Romans 8:18 says that our present suffering is not to be compared to our future eternity with Christ.
His suffering rewarded Him. Our suffering rewards us. And in the suffering is our best selves. It is “Good grief.” And He comes and suffers again, with us.
3 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, 4 who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God. 5 For as we share abundantly in Christ’s sufferings, so through Christ we share abundantly in comfort too. (2 Corinthians 1: 3-5, English Standard Version)
by Margaret Stone